Our
Grandparents
GRANDFATHER
I never saw my grandfather so everything told here has been related to me by
grandmother and other members of the family . . . most of it by grandmother.
Grandfather's name was Levor Levorson Rueslaaten. He was born in Aal, Hallingdal, Norway on
the 29th day of November 1827. His father was Levor Nilson Rueslaaten, and his
mother was Haldis Oldsdater Slettemoen. He was baptized December 16, 1827. He
was the fifth child of a family of twelve children.
At
the age of twenty-two be decided to leave his native country and immigrate to
America. An older brother, Nils, had left Norway and come to Iowa in the year of
1851.
Grandfather
was not a tall man. He measured five feet, and two inches in his stocking feet.
His hair was red and bushy; he was coarseboned and had hazel colored eyes. By
what I have heard of him, I imagine him to have been quite an optimist.
In
the year of 1849, he arrived at Mineral Point, Wisconsin. This is in
southwestern Wisconsin where people from Cornwall, England had come to find
their livelihood in Wisconsin's lead mines early in the last century.
Here
Grandpa hired out to an American farmer for a year at twelve dollars a month.
This man was what we call a "bad pay", so he stayed only six months,
and for the six months he got a pair of boots. By this time he was somewhat
acquainted and he found work with a man named Hiram Case. He stayed with Mr.
Case three years, and it was while he was there he commenced to learn English.
He bought pen, ink, paper, a candle, and a New Testament, the pages of which
were divided into two columns, one English and the other Norwegian. From this
Testament, using his spare time and with Mr. Case's mother as his teacher, he
learned to read and write the language of his adopted country. The kind old
lady, Mrs. Case, must have been a good teacher and Grandpa a diligent scholar.
My father said his "father was often taken for an English man because he
spoke the language so well."
The
winter of 1854 Grandfather and his brother Nils traveled south as far as New
Orleans, Louisiana. Here they spent their time cutting cord wood. When spring
came, they migrated back to Wisconsin In the meantime they heard of a Norwegian
settlement at St. Ansgar in Mitchel County, Iowa, and decided to go there. They
left Wisconsin and arrived in Mitchel County in the year of 1855. Grandpa stayed
on and worked on farms near St.Ansgar, but Nils traveled on to Worth County. He
took a claim in what is now Brookfield township. He was one of the first
settlers in that township.
In
his wanderings around St.Ansgar, Grandpa met a number of Norse men who were
natives of Hallingdal, Norway. Among them was Assor Groth. He had arrived in
Mitchel county in 1854 and had bought land one and one-half miles north of St.
Ansgar. Here Grandpa was always welcome and it became home to him during his
sojourn in Mitchel county.
GRANDMOTHER
Grandmother
Levorson was born in Hjartdal, Telemarken, Norway on the 28th day of October,
1836. Her parents were Jon Johnson Thoe and wife, Anne. In the community where
he lived, her Father was also known by the name, "Store Jon Thoe." She
was baptized in infancy by Rev. Finkenhagen and given the name Mari. She was the
second oldest in a family of six children. One little brother, Anon, died at the
age of two years of the dreaded disease small pox.
Grandma
was six years old when her father died. He was stricken with consumption and
died young. She often told us about her father's death, and that she did not
want to go to bed the evening he died. A lot of his relatives had gathered at
their house that evening. She said, "My father sat in a big chair and I
knew something unusual was happening, so I sat in the stairway wondering why my
mother and others were standing around his chair. I sat there until they came
and told me my father was dead, and I must go to bed." Her mother lived a
year after her father had passed away, leaving five orphans. A brother.
Johannes, and four sisters Aslaug, Mari, Anne, and Margit. Margit was a little
baby not quite a year old at the time. Her sister. Anne, died at the age of
eighteen years.
At
the age of seven Grandma went to live with her grandparents at Flatland . . .
they were her father's parents. She told how her sisters parted at the cemetery
where her mother had just been buried, some going to Flatland and some to Thoe.
Aslaug the oldest was old enough to work, so she hired out. The brother who was
younger than Grandma went along to Thoe where Margit went. We did not hear much
about her relatives, only that her grandparents lived to be very old, they were
close to the century mark. She mentioned her aunts, and such names as Dollum,
Løksli and Gislesen were in the relationship. Knudt Gislesen, a relative, later
became bishop in Tromsø stift.
In
summer she followed her aunt and the girls when they took the cattle up the
mountains to chalet- "seters", as was the rule in those days. She
herded the cattle, helped the girls in the chalet, and picked berries. Many a
time she told us children about the luscious berries she found on the mountain
side. But what capped the climax with us children was when she told us she found
gum on certain trees! Then we really wished Grandma had remained in Norway so
our home had been there. Grandma was good at telling stories and we children
always asked for more. When autumn came, the cattle were taken back to the home
in the valley.
On
Pentecost Sunday in the year 1853, she attended services for the last time in
her native land. The next day, in company with an aunt and her family, she left
Norway. She was then seventeen years old. After spending many weeks on a
sailboat they landed in Quebec. They left Quebec by train and arrived in Waupaca
County, Wisconsin; here they met people who had come from Norway and many of
them from Telemarken. Later her brother Johannes and sister Margit, then eleven
years old, came and joined her here. Grandma had sojourned in Wisconsin three
years when all three decided to journey west to Dodge County, Minnesota. They
found work and a good opening for settlers here, but no Lutheran pastor, and
little sister Margit was not confirmed yet. But reports were that there was a
Scandinavian settlement and a Lutheran pastor in Mitchel County, Iowa. So they
left Minnesota and came to St.Ansgar in 1856. Grandma got work with a Madam
Clausen, a Danish family.
DAYS
OF LONG AGO LIVE AGAIN
When
Grandmother Talks
We
peek into her room, here she sits in her high back rocking chair, her book, out
of which she has just finished reading a chapter, lies in her lap. Her eyes have
that far away look as she is reminiscing with herself; but as we enter her room
she is willing and happy to share her thoughts with us.
She
was always eager to tell us about her wedding, and it began like this. Levor and
I were married on the seventh day of March 1857 at the Assor Groth home near
St.Ansgar, Iowa. Assor was a friend of Levor and so was his good wife Kjersti.
The Rev. C. L. Clausen married us.
Levor's
brother, Nils, had moved to Worth County in the year 1855 and settled in what is
now Brookfield township. In the year 1856 Levor had come there and acquired 160
acres near his brothers place, but in 1857 he came back to St. Ansgar to get
married and take me back with him to Worth County. So after everything was over,
we bid goodbye to our kind friends. Our packing did not take long. There was a
chest, some cooking utensils, our books, a few dishes, and our clothes - nothing
much in worldy goods. But I felt quite proud sitting in the sleigh beside Levor,
dressed as he was in his fur cap and buffalo coat. I was quite dressed up too in
a woolen dress, made in the style of that time, a basque trimmed with glittering
buttons down the front. As we traveled across the cedar prairie, I remember how
I listened to the clank of the oxen yoke and the creak of the sleigh runners as
they traveled across the hard-packed snow. To me this sounded like music.
We
drove on as far as to some friends named Helgeson, where we stayed overnight.
Early the next morning we started out leaving the Cedar prairie behind, we came
west of what is now Northwood. Here the snow was so deep the oxen sank in and
could not get any farther, so Levor unhooked them. I walked to Rustads while
Levor turned back and borrowed a hand sled on which he packed all our goods and
came on and joined me at Rustads. It was now quite late in the day, and the
Rustads invited us to stay for supper. We stayed and we also visited awhile. I
enjoyed my visit with this hospitable lady and almost forgot that Levor was
anxious to go, until his challenge to me hurried me to accept the invitation to
walk with him to his brother's place.
So
bidding farewell to our kind hosts, we started out walking the many miles to the
Nils Levorson home. The night was beautiful, lit up by bright moonlight and a
million stars.
As
soon as we reached the Nils Levorson home, Levor knocked at the door. It did not
take long before Nils swung the door wide open and gave us a hearty welcome
calling out "Come in!" It was late at night, but Anne came too and
took us both by the hand and wished us a happy wedded life. It was like coming
home after the long trek across the snow-covered prairie and through what was
more or less a wilderness. But as I always said, we were young and happy and
this long walk was a wonderful wedding trip. Nils and Anne would not hear of us
walking any farther so we stayed with them overnight. The next morning we walked
to our own home.
This
home in Brookfield township that Levor had acquired, consisted of 160 acres of
good land. But when he was offered three hundred dollars and a pair of young
colts he sold the land and we moved west to Bristol township. Here we met Knudt
Trustem and his wife Kari who had come here the year before in 1856. At this
time people were few and far between, and as both Levor and Knudt had emigrated
from Hallingdal, Norway, they soon became acquainted and also become good
friends. Levor began to look around for land, and when Knudt offered to sell his
rights to the south eighty of his land to Levor, he accepted the offer. To this
eighty he bought rights to another eighty south of this, and Knudt added eighty
acres to his on the other side. The Trustems also invited us to stay with them
until our cabin was built. We accepted the invitation and stayed with these
obliging people until we moved into our log hut.
THE
HOME IN THE WILDERNESS
Our
cabin, or hut as I called it, was small, built of logs and plastered between the
logs with clay. It was a crude hut, but when Levor lifted me over the doorstep
and joked about me being so heavy, it really came to me - this is home, and I
must do my best to make it a good and pleasant one.
Our
food supplies were meager those first years. We lived on milk and potatoes, but
we never really suffered for want of food. We learned to make butter and cheese
from our milk and cream. and then we thought we really lived high. Now and then
a weary traveler would stop in and we would always have something to share with
him. One day my brother Johannes came and brought us some corn. By this time I
had a coffee mill, on this little mill I ground some of the corn and made corn
bread. I remember how good we thought this tasted after living so long on milk
and potatoes. Now that I had ground corn meal, Levor named me the family miller!
We
did encounter hardships those first years of our pioneer life, but we were young
and we were blessed with good health so we got along very well through those
years. The winter of 1858 was bitterly cold. We had a lot of snow, and the
blizzards sent the snow whirling in the air and it piled up around the cabin so
all we saw of it was the stove pipe and the smoke coming out of it. But Levor
was optimistic and always said, "There are better days coming." He
would go and stand on the biggest snow pile and call to his neighbor, Knudt, who
would be outside too and they would keep on talking to each other. All this snow
helped to keep it warm inside our cabin so after all we were glad and thankful
for the snow.
Often
at night I would lie awake and listen to the wind and the wolves keep up a weird
duet through the night. It was then that my thoughts would drift to beautiful
Hjartdal in Telemarken, Norway where I spent so many happy (and some sad) days
when my parents died and left me and my sisters and brothers orphans. Levor had
worked hard much of the time outside in the cold, so he was tired and slept
through it all. When morning came, it was to forget Telemarken and the home over
there and think and work for the home we were building here.
Letters
telling of friends coming from Norway came now and then to the settlers. So one
morning Levor got ready and hitched Fanny and Dock to the wagon. I got busy and
prepared a lunch for him. Our coffee which was chicory, I cooked and filled in a
bottle. Some bread, meat, and what I had I packed in some paper for him. After
saying goodbye, he started off on the long trek to McGregor. Iowa where he hoped
to find friends who had arrived from Hallingdal. McGregor was our nearest market
place, and when Levor started out for that far away place, I knew he would be
gone at least a week or maybe two. Very few roads had been laid out, so it was
to drive across country over marshes, bogs, and rough places, making it a
tiresome journey both for man and beast.
Arriving
in McGregor. after taking care of his horses, Levor began looking around for
friends which he hoped had arrived. These friends that he was looking for had
come and were standing in a circle on the landing place. Just as soon as Levor
saw them, he hurried over to where they stood, and grabbed his friend by the
hand and said. "Welcome to America!" It was a happy reunion for all of
them. The travelers had traveled far and were tired. They had made friends with
some people who came on the boat with them, but it was not like meeting old
acquaintances here in a land that was strange to them.
The
next day Levor got his horses, hitched them to the wagon and, when all their
belongings were loaded and the people were seated as comfortably as could be in
a vehicle of that day, they began the long journey westward. Levor told his
friend of the good land he had found in America and hoped his friend would like
the new country as well as he did. There was much talk about relatives in
Hallingdal and they brought greetings from a lot of them and this made the
journey seem shorter than usual. As Levor drove into an opening in the thick
timber, he surprised his friends by calling, "Come, Mari, here we
are." I had gone to the spring to get water and when I heard Levor call me,
I hurried over to where they were. There was Levor's friend, Erick, and his wife
and two little girls. It seemed a crowd to me after being alone a good deal of
the time. They were happy to have found friends and we were happy to be able to
give them shelter until they got something up for themselves. The country was
new and we were more or less dependent on one another.
Our
life on the frontier became more and more busy and exciting. The Seth Thomas
clock Levor had bought, ticked away. I was real happy to have it and to hear it
"tick tock" and ring the hours away. My neighbor, Kari, had one too
and I remember how happy and proud we were of our clocks.
The
hours grew into days, and months and finally the memorable year of 1857 came to
an end and 1858 came in cold and stormy. It was that year, on January 9th, that
our little Helene was born.
Later
that year Levor's brother Ole, his wife Guri, and two children - a boy and a
girl - came to live with us until they could move into their own cabin. We were
real happy to have them with us. The brothers often talked into the wee hours of
the night. We, Guri and I, were almost asleep when all of a sudden we heard
their hearty laugh ring out loud and long.
Ole
took his claim in what is now Hartland Township. Here he went every day to work,
cutting down trees and clearing a patch of ground on which to build his cabin.
But one evening he did not return at the usual time. We waited thinking he might
have been delayed with something. As time went on and he did not come, we became
worried. Something must have happened, so Levor and some men got together and
went to look for him. The timber was dense, and the night was dark. After
looking around for awhile, they found him lying under a big limb of a tree he
had cut down. The men had brought a lantern along and by the faint light it
could give they were able to see what had happened. The tragedy brought deep
sorrow into our home and especially to Guri who was left a young widow with two
fatherless children. Now there was the question where to bury the body, for
there was no dedicated cemetery that was Lutheran around here.
The
brothers, Nils and Levor decided that he must be taken to St.Ansgar where there
was a Lutheran pastor and a cemetery. They took him there and he was laid to
rest in the cemetery a little ways south of St.Ansgar. After the funeral, Guri
and her children returned to Spring Grove, Minnesota where her brother, Ole O.
Ruud and other members of her family lived. The parting with her and her little
ones was sad, but as always we found comfort in God's Word.
We
were well and we found plenty to do to keep us busy. Levor worked early and late
to clear some land so he could plant a patch of corn and potatoes. This was hard
work as the tools he had were mostly homemade ones. Levor had learned to carve
while at home in Norway and it served him well now when he had to make spoons
and bowls for me. Besides this, he had to build a log stable for his cattle and
horses too, as they could not be left outside in the cold. A well had to be dug.
All this took time, but little by little it was done. Benches took the place of
chairs. Things were simple, but we were happy for every little improvement that
was made. Besides all this, Levor had to be his own tailor, but I took over and
made Levor's clothing and my own. Our clothes were simple, as was everything in
our home. In order to make it, it had to be strict economy in those days. But as
I said "It is not how much you have, but how satisfied you are with what
you have."
Bristol
Township in Worth County was organized on the l3th day of October 1857, and the
village of Bristol was laid out and platted in the spring of that year.
The
village could now boast of a small store where we could buy some groceries, also
denim and calico goods. Bristol also had a doctor, as Dr. James Keeler had
arrived in Bristol in the month of September 1856. Bristol was now the county
seat of Worth County so it was there we had to go to pay our taxes and do our
business.
One
bright sunny morning Levor asked me if I would like to go along to Bristol as he
had to go there for something. Of course I would go! I would like to see the
place I had heard so much about. I remember as we drove across country how we
went humpty bumpty over rocks and stumps. There were no roads laid out yet. We
did get a good shaking up but no one was hurt. We were happy we had a good
strong wagon and a team of spry horses. There was also a place in Bristol where
the settlers could have their pictures taken, so Levor suggested we ought to
have ours taken. which we did. It was just a tintype picture, but they were as
stylish in those days as the kodak is today.
Levor's
brother Nils sold his claim in Brookfield Township and moved back to Mitchel
County and settled near St. Ansgar. A sister, Aagot, who was married to Halvor
Grogard had come to St. Ansgar and settled near there too.
More
settlers came every day now to make their homes around here, so we had neighbors
to the east, north, and west of us. To the south, none until a couple of years
later when a few Bohemian families moved in.
Missionaries
began to visit our little Scandinavian settlement. They came from Wisconsin or
St.Ansgar, Iowa. Rev. H. A. Preus, on one of his missionary journeys to this
settlement in the late 1850s, conducted services in the Lars Loberg home. People
came from far and near, some driving horses, and some in kubberulles drawn by
oxen. Twelve children were baptized at this service. Our Helene was one of them.
This having an ordained lutheran pastor come and conduct services for us was
something we had longed for, and we were really happy as we drove home. This
gave us hope that maybe someday we would have a Lutheran congregation in our
community.
Some
of our new neighbors that came were the Trilhuses and Flutoes east of us, the
Hundebys to the north, and the Groes to the north and west. In the early
sixties, Levor's mother, Haldis Levorson Rueslaaten and her two daughters Kari,
a young maiden, and Sissel married to Arne Tostenson, came to St. Ansgar where
Aagot, married to Halvor Grogard, lived. Haldis was then a widow. Most of her
children had left Norway and immigrated to America so she decided to come along
and she came to stay with us.
Our
little Levor was born March 10, 1860. We named him Levor for his grandfather
Levor Nilson Rueslaaten. When he was nine months old, he walked. Now it was not
long before he wanted to go out with me and see what there was out there. He
walked around and nothing scared him. But I became afraid he would wander off
and get lost in the woods, so I hung on him a sheep bell I had brought from
Norway, thinking it would be a help to me if he should get lost. There were also
rattlesnakes to look out for. I killed 2 rattlesnakes in the grass.
In
the meantime my sister Margit came to stay with us for a while. She took care of
the children and did the cooking while I worked outside planting my garden and
helping Levor. But it was not all work either; the neighbors got together and
had good times now and then. Sometimes we would take a trip to St. Ansgar and
visit Levor's brother Nils, and his sister Aagot and family, and the friends we
had there - always stopping to see our friends Assor and Kjersti Groth.
THE
CIVIL WAR
It
was now the year 1860 and war clouds were banging low over our country. Every
time our men met either in town or happened to meet on the road, they took time
to talk and to find out what they could about the war and the secession of some
of the states. When they came home we waited eagerly to find out what news they
could tell us. In 1861 our Republican candidate, Abraham Lincoln, was elected
and was inaugurated on March 4th that year. Now we all felt we had a good
leader. But there were traitors in our country and they were busy plotting and
planning, and before we knew it, there was a war and we were in it. The men
became restless thinking they must enlist and join the Union army.
Worth
County was first represented in the 15th Wisconsin Regiment, some of our
Norwegian boys enlisting in the infantry, Col. Heg commanding. On the 23rd of
December 1861, my brother Johannes enlisted in this regiment. It was called the
Scandinavian Regiment. He had built his log cabin up to the eaves on the land
northeast of us where he had squatted. He sold the land and all to Aslak Lien,
married to Barbro, a sister of the Trilhus boys, Tollef, Halvor, and Anders. The
day he left us has never been forgotten! Little Levor stood close by us admiring
his uncle's cap and other things his uncle had on. With a heavy heart we bid him
goodbye saying, "God be with you wherever you are." He was a good
pen-man and wrote to Levor. He served with his regiment in the battles of
Murfreesboro, also called Stone River, Chicamauga, Missionary Ridge and minor
engagements. He kept us posted as to where he was so Levor wrote to him.
Margit
had now gone to Mitchel to be a maid in the John Elliot home. Mr.Elliot was then
elected state auditor of Iowa and they all moved to Des Moines, taking Margit
along as a maid and naming her Maggie. Here she stayed five years. These were
the war years, and Margit heard quite often from John, as they called our
brother Jobannes.
Levor's
brother, Nils Levorson Rueslaaten, enlisted in the Union army and left home the
l6th day of January 1862. Our twin boys, Johannes and Nils, were born July 29th
that year. They were also called our war babies. So when the babies were to be
baptized Levor said "We will name them for our brothers, Johannes and Nils.
You name the big and strong one for your brother and I will name the little Nils
for my brother."
As
most mothers did, Haldis dreaded to see her son Nils leave for the war. Mother
Haldis made her home with us at the time he left. He was captured and imprisoned
in the Andersonville prison where he died. One short letter came in one of my
brother's letters. written by Nils to his mother, where he asks her to forgive
him for leaving without seeing her. Nils is buried in the National Cemetery near
Nashville, Tennessee. On his tombstone is engraved: "Mr.N.Slaaten, Grave
No. 646." This gave Levor a lot of extra work as he became guardian for his
two children, Levor and Helen.
My
brother, John Johnson Thoe, served with his regiment through all its activities
and was with General Sherman's March to Atlanta when he was instantly killed in
the Battle of New Hope Church on the 27th day of May 1864. He is buried in the
cemetery near New Hope Church, where Col.Heg and so many of his men gave their
lives.
THE
INDIAN UPRISING OF 1862
It
was not only the Civil War that was a worry to us, word came one morning to the
settlement that the Indians were coming. The settlers had heard rumors of how
they massacred the people and set fire to their homes. So Levor, like so many of
the neighbors, got things in order and got ready to leave home. First he let the
cattle loose, then clothing and other needful articles were loaded into the
wagon. After getting the four children in (the twins just a month old) we drove
east to seek safety in the older settlements. But when we came as far as the
Shell Rock River, a man on horseback came to say the Indians had been driven
back. With grateful hearts, we returned home, arriving after dark. The only
light we had was the homemade lard lamp, and that was stored away somewhere in
the wagon. The children were crying for a drink, but the cows were away, and the
drinking water had to be carried from a spring a quarter of a mile away. Even
so, we were happy we had reached home safely, and so with thanks to God for
delivering us from this danger, we got ready for bed and the sleep we needed for
the tasks of the morrow.
IOWA
THE BEAUTIFUL
Early
Iowa looked beautiful to the pioneers. On the fertile prairies the wild rose
bloomed. In the spring the wild crabapple trees bloomed on the hillsides, and
the sumac with its red berries and leaves gave color and beauty in the fall. We
found out that all these things could be used in some way. The wild crabapples
could be used for sauce and jelly. The sumac berry we picked in the fall and
used it as a dye. We dyed our white yarn a nice gray and knit stockings and
mittens both for ourselves and the children. If we wanted a different color, we
took the outside husk of the walnut and from that we got a beautiful brown
color.
Levor
had been busy building a house that was larger and better than the first little
cabin. This one consisted of three rooms downstairs. One big room served as a
kitchen, dining room, and living room. The pantry was in the southwest corner of
the house. It was here I did my baking, made doughnuts, bread, and churned
butter. In the northwest corner was the bedroom, and the stairway leading
upstairs was between the pantry and the bedroom. The upstairs was much like the
downstairs, one big bedroom and two small rooms. Little by little we furnished
our new house mostly with homemade furniture. Benches took the place of chairs.
A big cupboard was built by a carpenter who came from Sweden.
This
cupboard was built on the south wall in our big room and reached from the
ceiling to the floor. This made plenty room for all I had in the line of dishes,
crocks, and pans.
After
the house was finished and we had moved in, I was real happy. I even believed a
queen couldn't be more happy in her palace. Now we spent our winter evenings
making things for our new home. Levor made a stand about the size of a small
lamp, unto this stand he fastened a tin basin which he filled with tallow or
lard. A rag was set fire to and dropped into the lard and this was our lard
lamp. To get more light into the big room, we opened the front door of our
kitchen stove. The bright flames of the burning oak wood gave a glow around
where we sat - Levor with his work, carving, sawing, and hammering, and I busy
spinning. The whir of the spinning wheel made music in the room, but at times it
was almost drowned out by the noise of the saw and the hammer. Now and then our
laughter would ring out as Levor would try to sing one of his favorite ditties.
After a time our new home began to look like a fine home to us.
Our
nearest neighbor, Knute Trustem, had built a better and bigger house too, but he
left his little house standing and our first term of school was taught there. We
had a lady teacher, but I have forgotten her name. So many things were happening
in the year of 1863. Kari, Levor's sister had spent some time with us and some
time with her sister, Aagot, in St. Ansgar; but now she had come back to us and
Sissel. Tollef Tollefson Trilhus made frequent visits to the place where she was
and before long we were invited to their wedding. My sister, Margit was with her
and fixed her up as a bride so she was named the bridesmaid. Kari moved to
Trilhus and spent her life on the place there. We were glad to have them as our
neighbors.
Our
mail was to be brought from Mason City to Bristol, and now and then one of the
settlers would go and get it - so our neighbor, Knute Trustem, offered to get
it. There was snow on the ground, so he took his skiis and started out for Mason
City. After leaving our place he did not see a person nor a home until he got
close to Mason City. This was quite an undertaking as most of this territory
between our settlement and Mason City was wilderness. Kari told me she had never
been so glad as she was when she saw him come home again.
Our
son, John, was born on the 28th of December 1864. He was not a big baby, but
healthy and quick at noticing things. Arne and Sissel Tostenson, who lived a
short ways from us. lost their little son while on the Atlantic Ocean and had to
bury him there. They begged us to let our little Nils stay with them so feeling
sorry for them, we let them have Nils for awhile. Levor always called John our
little preacher, so we all began to say to him, "Kom her du vesle
prest."
On
the l2th of March 1866 we were happy to welcome our little Anne into our family
circle. Our spring came early that year - the green grass was already showing up
on the hillside where the sun got at it, even the last days of February. I had
been up and outside, but caught a bad cold and became sick in bed, so when Levor
came home and found me in bed, he said, "What have you done to her now, I
thought you were to take care of her while I was away. "But I was soon over
my sick spell and up and doing again. It was on that morning that Anne was born,
that Grandma Haldis died here on the place. So death and life met at our house
that day. We buried Haldis on the cemetery on the hillside near the Erick
Ellingson place.
People
were busy buying land, so we had neighbors to the south of us now. But before
they could move into their places, a lot of work had to be done, and so the
women and children had to live with one of us older settlers. One time we had as
many as sixteen children on the place. We did not all find room in the house,
but we fixed up the granary so some could live there. My sister, Aslaug
Gullickson, came at this time. Levor met her in McGregor and brought her and her
four children here. Her husband, Gullick, was dead, and as she had her two
sisters here, she decided to come here. We were the three sisters left of the
immediate family, and we two who were here, were anxiously waiting for her to
come and join us. We felt it couldn't be soon enough. When they arrived, tired
after a long journey on water and land, the meeting of the three sisters was a
very happy one. Aslaug looked at Margit and wondered if it was the little girl
she had said farewell to when my brother and she left Norway. Everything was new
to the children, but it was not long before the cousins got acquainted. Helene
and Anne became friends and so did Jon, Gullick, and Anond. Jon, the oldest, was
helpful to his mother and they all became friends to the cousins, our boys. They
stayed with us until Aslaug bought a place that was for sale about two miles
south of here. She bought eighty acres. Levor helped her and soon the neighbors
came to the place to offer their help. The west forty was mostly timber land
with big oak trees that her boys thought were so nice. We that came from Norway
always looked for trees as we liked them. Levor planted more trees on our place.
He planted cottonwood trees around our dwelling place and poplars along the
driveway from the road leading up to our house. He had already a grove of black
locust trees that he had planted from seeds he brought from the south when he
and his brother Nils returned from there after spending the winter cutting cord
wood. These trees grew tall and straight, had beautiful foliage and about the
last part of May they had flowers much like Sweet peas both in shape and odor.
The fragrant odor would fill the yard with a beautiful aroma. Levor took pride
in the looks of his place, so he worked hard keeping his buildings and
everything in order with the few implements he had.
Our
little Johannes was taken sick quite suddenly. We had plenty of help as some
newcomers had arrived from over seas - many of them from Sweden. But when
Johannes called for "moster" as the children called my sister Margit,
we sent for her and she came. The little one said, "I knew you would
come." He did not live long after that. The children missed their little
brother and so did we, but we knew he was better off so thanked God for letting
us have him this long. We buried him beside his Grandma Haldis.
The
years slipped by, and another little one was born to us. A little boy came to
gladden our home September 16, 1869. Levor said to me. "Now I think we will
have another Johannes as it seems that is a favorite name in your family. It is
either Jon or Johannes like Levor and Nils is in my family." So our little
golden-haired baby was baptized and his name was Johannes.
We
had no resident pastor in our midst yet, but now a Mr. T. A. Torgerson, a
candidate for theology from the Theological Concordia Seminary at St. Louis,
Mo., accepted the call extended to him by the church council in behalf of the
congregations. He was ordained on July 23, 1865. He preached his first sermon at
Elk Grove in a schoolhouse. Now we had an ordained pastor, and we did not have
to wait long before our children had to begin study in catechism. Teachers in
religion came from Norway, and we had school sometimes in our house, and
sometimes other places. Of course we wanted our children to get a good religious
training and we got good help from our pastor Rev. T. A. Torgerson. We also had
the common public school in our neighborhood. Levor served as school director
and that year all the directors in the county were given a chair. We had another
chair now, a sturdy oak chair in our home.
As
time marches on things are happening. Our pastor went back to Dane County.
Wisconsin. Here he was married to Dena Anderson on the 10th day of June 1866.
After three years in the Silver Lake parsonage, they moved south and he served
Lime Creek, South Silver Lake and Concordia congregations. South Silver Lake
bought the place that my brother Johannes had squatted on and had begun building
his house at the time the Civil War broke out. Aslak Lein bought it and finished
the building, and it was now bought by the congregation and the Torgersons moved
there. The cemetery for South Silver Lake congregation was laid out in lots and
there was room for a church building on the place.
In
1872 May 30th, a baby girl was born to us. The children thought she was tiny,
just like a doll, and that she was. But I said, "She will have plenty time
to grow big." Now what shall we name her? Sissel, Kristi, or what? We had
really run out of family names like Haldis, Helene, or Anna, so someone told us
Cecilia was a good name and the children liked that name, so that's what we
named her.
It
was about this time our friend Gustav Anderson, a brother of Mrs. Andreas
Kalhiem, came from where he was working. It was towards evening so he stayed
overnight with us. The next morning he planned to go to his sister's place some
over two miles south of here. But he had to cross Elk Creek here and being it
was in the spring of the year, the creek was well filled and running over its
banks. As he said goodbye he also said, "I dreamt about that creek last
night. I do hope it will not be my grave, but I must go in Jesus' name." So
he walked across the fields and was going to swim across the creek. The
neighbors saw him and thought he must be sinking into the water, so they got a
wagon box and set out to get him. None of the men there could swim, and when
they finally got him, he was already dead. Rev. T. A. Torgerson had gone south
to preach at Concordia that Sunday morning. He was a good swimmer, and people
thought if he had been home, he might have been able to save him. Now this man
was the first person buried on the South Silver Lake cemetery.
Levor
made several trips to St. Ansgar. One time he took both Helene and Levor, also
Margit along. I had the little baby so I stayed home. We had a newcomer from
Sweden staying with us at the time. His name was Albin Nelson. He was a good
friend of this G. Anderson that drowned and a good help for us. He was a
carpenter and made things for our house.
Rev.
Torgerson gathered the young people for choir practice and when Christmas came,
they also went caroling, besides singing an extra number in the church Christmas
service. Many of these newcomers were good singers, and the pastor had quite a
choir. The pastor also covered the territory on his missionary journeys, and if
not too far, his choir went with him. The roads were often bad and there were
places where there were no roads laid out yet.
Levor
had not been so well this winter so we urged him to see a doctor. He did not
think it necessary, so time went on this way until one day he was in town he
thought it was maybe best to do it, also to satisfy me who had been urging him
to do so. He saw a doctor but he told him he knew of a good Norwegian doctor in
Wisconsin and he would like to see him go there. Levor didn't see how he could
go so far, but the doctor urged him and said, "It's not so far. Remember
you came all the way from Norway so this should not be too far." Coming
home he told me what the doctor had told him to do, and we all thought it best
for him to go. He talked to his pastor about it, and he thought like thc rest of
us.
So
Levor decided to make the trip to Wisconsin and he began to get ready for it. It
was the last part of March 1873, and soon we had to prepare for our spring's
work. Now Levor was ready to leave and we bid him goodbye, hoping things would
turn out favorable for him. I myself dreaded to have him go alone, but there was
nothing else to do. He said, "Take good care of the children, Mari, and I
will be back before long." My sister, Aslaug, had come to see Levor off.
She was the oldest of us three sisters and came here as a widow, So now in this
time of trouble she was quite a comfort to me. Margit came too. They both
thought a lot of Levor as he had been kind and helpful to both of them.
Now
that he was on his way we all hoped he would see this doctor and get relief from
his pain. The week came to an end, and here Levor came home a sicker man than
when he started out. The doctor he went to see was not at home, and as Levor
felt really sick he hurried home. We called our doctor and he told me,
"Your husband is really very sick with pneumonia and he needs good
care." Good old friends and neighbors came and offered their help, but I
felt I must be up and around all the time. His two sisters, Kari and Sissel,
came as he meant a lot to them, being their only brother left as Ole and Nils
had gone before. The week was almost at its end when we understood that the end
was near at hand. Two of our neighbors came that evening and offered to stay.
They also told me to go and rest a while and they said, "We will be sure to
wake you if we see any change." But the end came with no more warning, and
when I came, he was already dead.
I
thought, "What am I going to do now?" But it seemed an answer came to
me and said, "My ways are not your ways." So I began thinking of the
children that I had to care for. Helene, the oldest was 15 years old and getting
ready for confirmation, and Levor, thirteen, who had been reading in the junior
confirmation class. His father had asked the pastor how Levor was getting along,
and the answer was this, ''He will have to improve on his reading as that is not
good. but he understands what he reads so he can give a correct answer when he
is asked questions.''
The
next hard thing for me to do was to arrange for the funeral. I would so liked to
have done it the way my pastor told me to do - leave off the getting together
for a big meal. But his relatives and friends said, "Levor surely left so
much you can give us a good meal." Oh yes, but that was not what bothered
me, I was tired and almost sick from grief and sorrow. but I could not shed a
tear, so they thought I did not mourn but it seemed my tear ducts had dried up.
My
neighbors and friends came to help. Little Cecilia was only seven months old
when Levor died April 3rd, 1873. So I had seven fatherless children to take care
of. Most of them stayed with us, some went to Trilhus to stay with Kari. Our
pastor who had seen Levor almost every day the week he was sick, preached a good
funeral sermon. When all was over and everybody had left, it was for me to go
out and help with what was necessary to be done. Levor missed his father so much
as he had been with him on his trips to town, also to the timber land called the
Bently Woods where we owned a lot, and to St. Ansgar to see his folks there.
Levor's good friend, Ole Ellingson, Sr. was chosen as administrator. I did not
think I could stay on this place anymore, but my pastor, Rev. T.A.Torgerson and
Ole Ellingson said, "You better stay here, we will get things straightened
out, but it may take awhile because of these minor children of his brother,
Nils, that he had been a guardian for." They had some money that had been
loaned out and that had to be collected. The mother of the children became their
guardian, and as soon as the money was collected it would be sent to Anne. She
was married and now was Mrs. Larson. Money was scarce and it was not easy to
collect.
I
had to be careful not to buy anything, but once I was in Albert Lea on an errand
I needed something to fix a fence. Nils was with me and we met Mons Grinager and
told him what we needed, but we did not have money to pay for it today, but
would as soon as we could. He said he couldn't let me have it if I didn't have
money to pay right away. We knew it was no use and said we would have to get
along the best we could with the fence across Elk Creek. In the meantime, Mons
Grinager and Nils had begun to talk of the Civil War. Nils said he had an uncle
in the Fifteenth (15th) Wisconsin Regiment also named the "Scandinavian
Regiment." His name was John Johnson. "Are you a sister of his?"
he asked me, and I said, "Yes." "I knew the honest young man and
you can have what you asked for." I was glad to hear what he said about my
brother. To us he was what we call a true Christian both in word and deed, and
that often goes far, and it did for me. We went home happy.
Time
went on and my little John was ready for confirmation. His father had always
said he was to be our minister son. Levor had several teachers and ministers in
his relationship in his homeland in Norway. I was also urged to send John to
school. He was fifteen years on the 28th of December 1879, and now they said it
is the time for him to begin, as it will take him surely eleven years of
schooling to finish the course, if not more. This sounded impossible to me. But
it was finally decided that he should go to Decorah and enroll at Luther
College. He was then fifteen years old which I thought plenty young. Besides his
school work he got work cutting wood for some of the professors. A friend of
Levor's was also going there so we sent John in company with him. Now that he
was there, I felt I must do my best to keep him with books, clothes, and
necessary things. After he had been there his first year, he came home to spend
his vacation and got work during the harvest season.
Levor
was at home yet, but he asked Nils to take his place here as he wanted to go
with his friends on a trip to North Dakota where he could homestead on some
land. Some relatives and friends were leaving for that far away country, and
Levor wanted to go. He packed some clothes into a piece of cloth somewhat like a
red kerchief and left in a covered wagon with these people.
Just
the year before this happened, my good neighbor. Kari Trustem passed away on the
l6th of May that year. It was that night that Levor took our horse Fanny and
went horseback to get Dr. Keeler to hurry off to Trustems as Kari was very sick.
But there was nothing that could be done for her. She passed away that day
leaving some little ones. and a grown daughter, Gertrud, married to Gule
Guleson, a Wisconsin farmer. Olene was the baby, she was about Celia's age, and
after her mother was gone I took the little girl home with me. Mrs. Kari Lein
and I had stayed with our good friend, Kari Trustem until she died. A lot of
Knute's, also Kari's relatives came from the Elk Creek settlement so there was
plenty help and we could leave. But little Olene wanted to go with me and so she
did. This was the l6th of May 1880. a beautiful day, but it was with a heavy
heart I walked home that day thinking of the motherless home and the many little
ones. But there is always a way. Kari's sister, Ingeborg Anderson, had come from
Norway and she was there. She had brought with her a little girl named Caroline
from Norway and she stayed with her.
Levor
had been gone for a year or more when his friend, Ole Trustem, died leaving a
young widow and two sons. Levor came home for his funeral. They had been good
friends down through the years and so he arrived in time for his funeral. Nils
tried to talk Levor into taking over at the home place, but, "not yet"
was the answer he always got. Johannes could help along now, but he was not old
enough to go ahead and do everything that had to be done on the place.
Margit
had come to stay with me, but she was not well, and before long she had to go to
bed very sick with rheumatic fever. I had been helping out here and there in the
neighborhood especially where a child was bom. I was now named the midwife of
the neighborhood. a job that kept me busy now and then. I knew all these women
of the second generation, and they knew me and we got along first rate.
Our
pastor had now organized a "kvindeforening" or "ladies
society" and we were to meet around at different homes. It was mostly as a
mission society as we were to work for our schools in the synod, also for other
missions such as the one in Zululand in South Africa.
After
Kari Trustem passed away, it often fell to me to board our teachers. Two that I
especially remember were Julia Swift and Johanna Lindflot. Julia later became
Andrew Trustem's wife.
Helene
was now in Decorah where she worked and tried to help John with money so he
could keep on at school. When she returned home, she and Anne Gullikson decided
to go to Mason City and apply for housework. They did, but they did not stay in
Mason City very long, but came to Northwood where they found work. They said
Northwood was a much nicer and a more beautiful city than Mason City. They
thought Mason City wasn't near as well kept as Northwood, and they also found
work for real nice people. Helene worked at the same place for seven years.
Northwood was not so far away, but she could come home if necessary. Anne got
together with some girls that were leaving for Minneapolis, so she went with
them. They found work in the city and liked the change. Anne even had the
experience of getting lost one evening so had to call on a policeman to get to
her place. When leaving her he said, "And when can I see you again?"
Anne gave him a quick answer, "O, when I get lost." It was like Ann -
she always had an answer right there.
About
this time I received a letter from Levor saying he planned to get married and
asking if I could come to the wedding. But I could not get away, and besides I
thought it was too far away. I wrote and told him, "You have Sissel Faster
there, and she will have to take my place." His next letter told about the
wedding. A Rev. Gronlid had married him and Ida Sagen on the fourth day of
August 1884. He also said, "We will see you at Christmas as we plan to make
a trip to Iowa then and maybe stay for the winter." And stay they did.
There was much to tend to and Levor found plenty to do.
Margit
was staying with Aslaug, and Helene was working in Northwood. Celia was
attending school, and so was Johannes. So Levor and Ida were quite a help to me.
Nils did not like farming. He would rather get off to business school and take a
course in that, so he and a friend went to Decorah and enrolled in a college
there. He stayed on and finished the course this college gave, and so he was
ready to give up farming. He told Levor,"You will have to stay on. I will
be willing to help you, but I'm not a farmer like you are." So time went on
and Levor and Ida stayed.
Now
that I had help, I had time to help out more in the neighborhood. I helped where
there was sickness also where a baby was born. I had been doing this, but now I
could do more of it and I was soon named midwife around here in the country, and
they came to get me from here and there.
It
was the fall of 1885 now, and it was time to get our threshing done. It was
already the 15th day of September and they were busy threshing here that day. My
oldest, or rather first, grandchild decided to come then, and so it was really
more than I could do. Anna was working in Northwood, and so was Helene, and
Celia was in school. Margit was at Aslaug's, but they had to go and get her. She
came and when I had Margit I felt safe as I knew she would do her share of the
work. Lars Ellingson had his threshing rig here and was anxious to keep on, and
so they did, and we got along real well. Ida was well and when the baby was two
weeks old, she took her to churech and had her baptized. I was to be her
godmother and she was named for her two grandmothers - Mina for me and Kathrine
for Ida's mother, Karen Sagen. The other sponsors were Helene and Nils. Ida had
asked Johannes, but he felt he was too young - he was just confirmed then.
Mr.
O.Myers was to teach our school in Distriet No.1 that year, and that was just on
the corner where the roads going east, north and west from us, on the corner of
Knute Trustem's land. A new school building was built there and Celia and her
friends attended and finished that year. That year Celia finished her country
schooling, she had to write a farewell to the school. She also sang:
Goodbye
to the school and goodbye to the stepstone.
God
bless those I leave with a sigh.
It
will cherish my memory while I am away
to
bid this old stepstone goodbye.
Ever
so often we had company, Ida had some relatives in Northwood that came to spend
a weekend. I had some distant relatives in Fertile, Iowa - they were the
Landsverk family. Mr. Landsverk sold and repaired organs and other musical
instruments. The Landsverk girls often visited here. Celia and Nettie Landsverk
spent one winter in Decorah attending a school for teachers they had there.
Levor
and Ida had two more little ones now, a little girl named Lotta. Her godmother
was Mrs. T. A. Torgerson, and Lotta always said, "Gudmor me." Once the
Torgerson boys were here to get salt. Lotta came running in and said, "I
must have a saucer. Gudmor me vil ha salt." Levor always had a barrel of
salt in the granary, handy to feed some to the cattle too.
Levor
was a good farmer so I felt I should sell my stock and let him get a chance to
get cattle of his own. So I decided to have an auction and sell my cattle and
horses and a few pieces of machinery I had. The sale was a success as far as
getting rid of things. I even sold Fanny to a neigbbor. I kept one of my cows
and Levor bought a couple of them as he needed cattle if he should keep on
farming here, and that I hoped he would. I felt kind of free now, so I could
help out here and there where it was needed.
Oscar
was born April 15, 1888. He was not as robust as Lotta. He was small and I felt
he should be baptized right away so we sent for Rev.T.A.Torgerson and he
baptized him and named him, Oscar, for his grandpa Sagen.
Ida's
three sisters all lived in North Dakota at this time, and every time they wrote,
they said they would like a picture of the children. Now Helene was working in
Northwood and she said to Ida, "You bring the children and I will go with
you to the Knudsen Photograph office. He is a good photographer and you have
their picture taken." When we came to Northwood we went to the place where
Aunt Helene worked. She was ready to go with us. When we got into the place
where our picture was to be taken, Lotta was brave and walked right in, but Mina
was thinking of what our uncle Johannes had told us. He had said, "Be
careful now as it will hurt." So when it was time for us to stand in front
of the machine, Mina decided she didn't dare, but she knew it wouldn't help to
tell Mama. We had our picture taken and found out it did not hurt.
STORY-TELLING
TIME, AND THEN CHRISTMAS
Then
I was tired and I would say to the children, "Let's try to be quiet now and
not say a word for five minutes." It was so very still those five minutes
we could hear the old clocks tick, tock.
Celia
was teaching school now, but came home to spend Christmas. We were all busy
getting ready for the holidays. I always said, "We must be ready with our
work both inside and outside early on Christmas Eve." Our pastor had told
his congregations the Christmas tree was for the home, not for the church. So I
told Johannes and Celia, who were home then, that they must find a tree and
decorate it, but go upstairs in the big room and do it. I had a little wood
heater there and the room was good and warm. They did as I told them. The
children were restless as they knew Uncle and Auntie were up to something. Then
I sat down by the upstairs door and told the children how we celebrated
Christmas in Norway. Also, about the life as we lived it there. Then I would
tell about our cattle and how they were taken up in the mountains in the summer
and how we called them by name: Come Ringli, Rangli, Rolind, Fjolin, Letfot,
Himmeros, Haugeros, Adelin og Dropla. Now I have all my cattle except Ringlan
and Rolan who are left on the mountainside where they find plenty to eat.
Margit
and Ida had much to do, so we had to stretch our patience. Levor came in and he
said, "The chores are done." The cream mush was cooked, the sausage
was fried, the lefse was brought to the table, the candles were lit, so now it
was for us to sit down. John had arrived for his vacation and he read the
Christmas gospel, and we all sang Christmas songs. I had made plenty candles - a
thing the children were so eager to watch me do.
By
now we were invited to come upstairs and when we got there, the children were
let in one at a time. When we saw the lit up tree there were "Oh's"
and "Ah's." Gifts were not many in those days, but everyone got
something. Lotta was especially happy about her gift from Uncle Johannes - a
little iron kettle. We were all happy and when we had heard more about why we
had Christmas, the children had to go to bed.
I
had gone to the woods that fall taking Mina and Lotta with me, and we picked
hazel nuts. These we laid in the sun to dry. When they were dry enough, we took
the husks off. I got some old muslin, made a bag for each of the girls and
filled them with hazel nuts and hung them up in the pantry. Now between
Christmas and New Years, Pastor and Mrs. T.A.Torgerson invited the young married
couples and other young ones over one evening to share in picking the Christmas
tree. So Levor and Ida were invited too, and Margit and I stayed home with the
children, and we gave them a little hammer and they would sit and crack nuts.
Time
went on, and spring came and brought longer days. It also brought warm weather
so the little ones could go barefooted. It was at this time Celia received a
note from Mr. N.Landsverk of Fertile, Ia. that he had an organ he would seIl her
at a reasonable price. He said he had ordered it for a man who did not want it
because it had imitation pipes on, instead of the common decorations most of the
organs had then. Well, it was to go to Fertile and see what we could do. John
was home at that time, and he would take her to Fertile. I was invited to go
along as Mrs.Landsverk claimed I was a relative of hers. So we three got ready
and went. We went early one morning, stayed over until the next day. Mrs.
Landsverk and I visited and talked about our folks that were still in Norway,
and I was glad I had come along. The next day we loaded the organ into the light
spring wagon and said goodbye to our friends who were more than friends, as Mrs.
was a relative of mine. We reached home late in the day, bringing the organ.
There was really excitement at home then, when they came home bringing the
organ.
We
thought Mama would let Lotta and Mina stay up a while longer that evening, but
when bed time came they had to go to bed. But they decided to stay awake to bear
Aunt Celia play; before long Lotta was fast asleep. Mina, too excited, was bound
to hear Aunt Celia play, and she beard her play, "The Last Rose of
Summer" which she never forgot. Then Johannes had his violin tuned and we
had music.
When
autumn came, Celia had to go back to teaching. The Strom school, two miles south
of here wanted her to come back, and she, as well as they wanted her, liked to
go there. She was rated a good teacher. She gave her pupils help when needed,
but also made them do the work and find interest in doing so. The school house
was close to Aslaug Moster's home, so she stayed with Aslaug and Anna. She also
moved her organ over there so Anna Landsverk would stop in on her route around
to give music lessons. I often went to my sister, Aslaug's place to stay a day
or two, and then we would be in Hjartdal in Telemarken again with friends and
relatives. We remembered a lot more of Norway than our sister Margit who was so
young when she came here. She and Ida had never cared to go back.
That
summer, Ida had a chance to go with some people to North Dakota, so we offered
to take care of the children, also the work so she could go and see her
relatives, especially her father who was not well. John was spending his
vacation here at home then, and he too could help. Ida went and enjoyed her trip
as she got around to see relatives and Friends. The children were well and
everything went well.
Aunt
Margit read our "Sunday Paper" - "Borneblad" for Mina and
Lotta. There were lots of good stories in that paper, and Mina and Lotta rowded
up close to Aunt Margit and begged her to read more. Margit read better than I
could. I was often bothered with a bronchial cough that affected my throat.
Margit read, and sometimes the story was sad and the little girls shed some
tears. And again it was like this, "Hip, hop i gallop lige til jeg siger
stop."
After
three weeks, Ida came home bringing greetings from the North Dakota folks. Mina
was remembered by Sissel Faster, she sending her a book in Norwegian,
"Alene i London" or "Alone in London" when translated. Mina
was quite happy about the book and Aunt Margit read it for Lotta and Mina.
It
was now time to get to the woods and pick plums, grapes and sour crab apples,
hazel nuts, and sumac berries for dying yarn and other things. I had some
Telemarken friends living on the prairie, and they came to get plums and grapes.
One afternoon in early autumn they came, so I got ready to go with them. Their
little daughter, Hage, came along too, so Mina, Lotta, and I went with them to
the woods and picked almost a sack full of plums. It looked like rain, so we
hurried back to the house. Hage was afraid of the thunder, and I asked them to
stay until the shower would pass by. Ida cooked coffee and we got doughnuts and
coffee, jelly, bread and butter. It was always fun to visit with these friends.
Margit
and Ida decided to divide up on the work now. Margit was to do the light cooking
and Ida was to do the heavier work. I worked in the garden, raised beans and
vegetables and potatoes. I often had a sackful of beans stored away for winter.
My
old friend, Margit Lovodden or Buli, as she was often called, would come and
stay for a week or two with us. She was a happy old soul and would tell stories.
One day the Trustem children and we were sitting on the south side of the road.
One of the boys ran out and looked to the east, and he came running back and
said, "Here come Margit, the fortune teller." We came up in a hurry
and ran home. I said, "Hush Up" to the children but they were happy as
it was always the more the merrier to them. O well, old Margit spent some of the
time this way as she was not able to work anymore. She and I went calling on the
neighbors and we also enjoyed going to the woods to find plums that Margit could
bring home. Ida gave her some goods and made her a dress. When Rev.Torgerson
went to Concordia he came by and took her home if she had no other way of going.
We
always went to call on Kari Trilhus. Kari was busy with her many jobs, but
always took time to talk when we came, and of course the coffee can was cooking,
and we had to have coffee before we left. We also had to go into the bedroom and
see old Grandma Trilhus who had been bedridden for a number of years. Kari was
taking care of her. Kari's oldest daughter was married to D.O.Ellingson and
moved away, so Helen was the only one to help her mother.
Later
on Ida's aunt from Northwood came to stay a week. She was Ida's oldest aunt. Her
name was Henrika Warnson, and she had come from Norway. Her man had been a
tailor in Norway so got a job at a clothing store in Northwood.
Time
went on, and we had to follow it. John was to be ordained, and besides our
relatives here, we expected Anna and family from Northwood, N.D. Uncle Peter,
Anna and baby Karine came on Saturday. Ida and Margit were busy - food for a big
family had to be prepared for Sunday, and cleaning had to be done to every room
in the house. I had white-washed the walls both inside and outside, so it looked
nice. Ida had washed windows and hung up clean curtains. The little girls Mina
and Lotta had washed the chairs, and now they were playing and having a good
time. There was a good swing hung up in an old cottonwood and there we could
swing plenty high.
In
the evening when Aunt Margit was ready to go out, Mina wanted to go with her,
but when they got into the summer kitchen ready to go out, a man was standing in
the doorway, so we hurried in again. Auntie told Levor he better go out and he
did. He brought the man in and asked if they couldn't fix some food for him.
They did and he ate like he was very hungry. Levor told him there was no room
for him in the house as we were many, but he would fix up a place for him in the
granary, and he seemed pleased to get to sleep there. Levor was up early and
went to see if he was getting up, but the man was gone. The man was not
talkative but seemed glad to find a place where he could rest. He also seemed
anxious to get on his way. It happened quite often that a pedestrian would come
along as walking was very common in those days. There were those we knew as
peddlers, tramps, and beggars, walking about on foot.
The
next day was Sunday and we were all going to church. Lotta and Mina got to wear
their white dresses, but must not get them dirty as they were to wear them the
next day when we must have our picture taken. The church was well filled that
day. There were many pastors from the different congregations around here. John
was ordained, and now he was ready to leave for his mission call to Astona,
Oregon. Helene was going with him. Before they left, she had company that came
to say goodbye. Her friends from Northwood came one day for dinner, and there
was company now and then. The reason the two, Lotta and Mina, remember that was
that they brought their hats. Everybody wore hats in those days.
On
December l4th, 1893, Johannes was married to Ella Olson, a sister of our
neighbor, Ole Olson married to Maria Roppe. The wedding took place here. They
went to church to be married, but the dinner and supper were served here.
Neighbors and friends were invited. Two of her sisters and two brothers were
here. Her brother, Ole, was a neigbbor so didn't have far to come, but the
others came from Fillmore County, Minnesota. This was Ella's native home, but
she had spent some time working in Minneapolis. She also had a sister living
there. She was a good seamstress and had made a very nice dress for Theoline
Roppe that we admired so much.
Mina
had been very sick the summer before with a painful bone disease, so she could
not go to church. So Lotta and Hannah Ingebretson stayed at home too, and they
had much fun. In the evening after the supper dishes were washed and put away,
the young people played games and had a good time. The children sat and watched.
Uncle had gotten a couple of rooms at the Kivle home, so they moved in there
after they had been in town to get a kitchen stove. They got quite a few wedding
presents. Mina still remembers the bed they got from some neighborhood friends
That
winter was a rather cold one. Mina was not able to attend school that winter, so
got in on a few other things. One thing she and aunt Margit got to do was go
along to see where Uncle Johannes and aunt Ella lived. They had two real nice
rooms which Aunt Ella had fixed up.
Mina's
leg became better as our Dr. A.Quisling took care of it, but she could not walk
yet. He always said, "Next summer you will run like a colt." And so it
happened, and that fall she could hardly wait for school to begin.
Before
this happened, our little two year old brother, Paul Edwin, was taken sick very
suddenly one day. Aunt Margit had taught him the mames of the days of the week
from Sunday to Saturday, and we older children would stand around and listen and
when he came as far as to Saturday, he would burry and say "Sateday"
and we would clap our hands. After being sick a week, he died. Ida could not be
around as another little boy was born before this happened to Paul Edwin. Pastor
Torgerson came to the house and had devotions and I remember he patted Lotta and
Mina on the head and said, 'Now you have a little brother in heaven." Mina
did not go along to church but Lotta and Oscar did. Lotta told Mina they got so
cold but Mrs.Quisling came and took them in to church where she set them close
to the stove so they got good and warm. We did get another brother, Paul, but
this time it was Paul Gerhard as they wanted that.
Mama
had told us that we would soon have another aunt and in the summer of 1894 Uncle
John came home, and on June 26th he was married to Gurine (Julia) Harmon. There
was to be a wedding at the Ole Harmon place near Tenold. Aunt Helene was asked
to come and help them get ready for the wedding. Mama fixed our clothes, washed
and ironed our dresses, and the evening before the wedding, she and Aunt Margit
sat on the porch and polished all the shoes. We couldn't get any new clothes,
but what we did have to wear was clean and in press. The next day, the 26th was
a beautiful day, warm and sunny. We all got ready and went to church. When all
was over, we went to Harmons, but Papa waited until the rest had gone as we were
taking Anna Gullikson with us, and we stopped in there. Both she and Aunt Aslaug
went with us. A cloud passed over and we had a little rain shower, enough for
Grandma to open her big umbrella, and for us to crowd up to her. There were
several little girls sitting on the lawn when we came there and we joined them.
We had dinner, and it was the first time we tasted ice cream, and of course we
remembered that!
That
beautiful summer, Grandma was busy. She planted a garden east of the house, and
we children were with her. Our help was not too much, but we ran errands for
her, and watched how she did it. We had lots of respect for Grandma. She never
scolded us, but she demanded respect, and she was always willing to help us in
any way she could. But if it was a slice of bread with brown sugar on it, it was
to go to Mother or Aunt Margit for that.
We
always looked forward to the Fourth of July celebrations at the parsonage. Most
of the three congregations would meet there on the Fourth. The families would
bring big baskets full of food, and they would find a shady place; we always sat
in the shade of the big oak west of the house. Mother and Aunt Margit would
spread a tablecloth on the ground and lots of fried chicken meat, biscuits,
lemon pie and many other things. Then there was coffee and lemonade. One of the
storekeepers from Lake MilIs was always busy selling peanuts, candy, and
lemonade. At two o'clock it was time for the afternoon program to begin.
There
was always an afternoon program at these Fourth of July gatherings. And this
time Rasmus B. Anderson, a brother of Mrs.T.A.Torgerson, had promised to come.
He came and gave the lecture that day. For some years the congregations gathered
at the Somber parsonage on the Fourth ofJuly. One year the Luther Academy Band
furnished the music there (this was in 1906).
The
summer of 1895 was a busy time here and also so at many places in the
neigbborbood. Most of the old settlers had been living in log houses, but now
they decided it was time to build a frame house, so before long one could hear
both sawing and pounding of nails in the neighborbood. Levor was busy hauling
lumber, digging the cellar, etc. Mr.Gunder Nelson, a mason from Lake MilIs,
plastered the cellar and Ole Bulie built the house. Margit and Ida were busy
with their work as now they had men to cook for.
Celia
and Grandma had planned a trip to North Dakota and were told, "You must go
now that you have planned it and written so they expect you." So they took
the tram from Northwood and landed in Northwood, N.D. where they were met at the
depot by Peter Evanson. Grandma stayed all summer enjoying meeting so many
friends and relatives-people who had moved there from Iowa, Minnesota and other
places.
The
summer went by so quickly and autumn was there in all its beauty before we
realized it. The leaves were changing colors and before long the school bells
would be ringing. It would be moving into the new house too. Lotta and Mina
didn't think it was so swell to move out of the old house, but dared not say
anything about it. The old cupboard was too big for the small rooms, so Albin
would not have that hiding place. He was lost once when he was little and we
hunted here and there for him and we couldn't find him anyplace. Mama and Aunt
Margit were really worried that he had wandered off to the creek and maybe
fallen into the water, but then they happened to open one of the cupboard doors
and to their joy, and ours too, they found him. He was fast asleep having a good
nap.
Levor
had bought a windmill and when it was put up, the women told him he must take
the lower steps off, but he said. "No, they will have to learn to stay off
until they will be able to climb it."
Grandma
arrived home that fall in time for potato digging, and the potatoes were to be
stored in the basement by the 28th of October, and that was her birthday. It was
getting quite cold now, and she was glad to be home again although she had had a
good time seeing so many friends and relatives. She and Aunt Margit had the room
right above the kitchen that was the warmest upstairs. But then we asked,
"Where is Aunt Celia?" O, she was to teach one of the schools in the
country in North Dakota that winter. The four oldest children were of school age
now and Mina was well enough to go along too.
In
the winter of 1895 on the 17th day of December, our sister Martha was born. It
had been boys all the time now, so Mina and Lotta were happy it was a girl. Mina
had to ask Aunt Margit if she thought the little sister will be of school age
before she would have to quit.
There
were three big apple trees on the place. They were given to Helene, Anna and
Celia by Arne Tostenson. Those apples were really deIicious, never have we
tasted any better. We used to climb the trees and sit there and eat apples. Our
relative from Northwood, Louise Amundson, used to come out with her folks, and
Lotta and Louise would go way up high in the trees.
Ingebrit
and Kjersti Tollefson and our parents, Levor and Ida, were good friends. Levor
and Ingebrit were cousins and Ida always said Kjersti was like a sister to her.
So they often visited back and forth. We children were always glad to go along
to Tollefsons. Oscar and Albin were great pals of Andrew Tollefson. Christina
and Lotta were good friends, and Mina was with them often too. On the second day
of Feb.1896 a little girl was born to the Tollefsons. She was baptized and named
Marie Louise, and she and Martha Caspara had some real good times together.
When
Grandma came home, Lotta and Mina were glad as Grandma was always willing to
help them and now it was potato digging time and Grandma and we helped. The
potatoes were to be in the cellar by the 28th of October, Grandma's birthday. We
never heard much about birthdays in those days. It was only that one was a year
older when a certain date in the year came around and then one should have an
extra pat on the back. But we always knew Mama's was the 23rd of June, and Aunt
Margit's the sixth of May, and Grandma's the 28th of October.
Either
Lotta or Mina had to go to get the mail from Mrs. Torgerson.
The
next summer we had company from North Dakota. They came the latter part of June.
Aunt Anna and four children, Karine, Mabel, Luella, and Jerome. That summer we
had lots of company. Mrs. Mathia Markerson and Anna Myrie came along; a sister
and niece of Ingebrit Amundson came to their place but later they came out here
to stay a week. Mama had worked for Mrs.Markerson when she lived in North
Dakota, so she and Anna Myrie came out here and stayed a week. We were a
houseful but it was fun. We had a playhouse and were out there much of the time.
Uncle
John had a house right west of us. Just now Uncle was busy teaching parochial
summer school, next he belped Rev.Jenson who was not well. Aunt Julia was then
alone, but we went over often and now that the N.D. people were here, they were
out for afternoon coffee parties here and there, and to visit relatives and
friends. Aunt Helene was working at Olsons that summer, so she could come home
once in awhile. We often took our lunch outside and sat under the cottonwood
trees and ate. We three girls, Mina, Lotta, and Karine, slept on the floor in
Grandma's room. Lotta and Karine played and made so much noise that Grandma
could not sleep, so she called to Anna and said, "You must get those girls
to be quiet now and go to sleep." Mina turned to the wall and tried to
obey, but it took the youngsters a little longer, so Papa called and said.
"I do not want to hear any more noise from up there," and that
finished it for that time.
Aunt
Anna had a letter from Uncle Peter that he would be coming to Iowa soon and he
could stay a couple of weeks. He came, and Papa went to Northwood to meet him
when he got off the tram. They drove along and when they got west, on what we
called the "Trilhus Haug," he waved his hand to the southwest and
said, "This country is the most beautiful of what I have seen of
Iowa."
While
here he took some old board he found, also he went to the woods and got some
branches, and built two play houses for us children, and, of course, got us
children busy fixing and cleaning our rooms. Then he belped Aunt Anna and Mama
hang out clothes when they washed.
They
were invited here and there to relatives and friends and the time went fast. The
two weeks were soon up, and the last Sunday they were here, the folks invited
all the near-by relatives here for dinner. The invitations were accepted and
they came. Anna Gullikson and her mother came with Uncle Johannes and family.
Also Uncle John and Aunt Julia, Tollef and Kari Trilhus and their two sons, Ole
and Tollef, Jr., Ingegrit, Kjersti, Andrew, Christena, and Marie, D. O., and
Margit, Christena, Ole and Mina Ellingson. The Bakke family had not arrived, and
we had not beard if they could come. It was dinner time, the long tables were
set and the cooks had dinner ready, so Levor said, "We that are here better
eat," so everybody took their places. But there was still one empty place,
so Kari said, "Come right away, Man, and sit down - we are hungry."
Grandma came. They all got busy both talking and eating. After the cooks,
children, and all had eaten, Knut and Kristi Bakke came driving up to the house.
They had been delayed, that was why they could not be here earlier. Kristi was a
cousin of Kari Trilbus, also of Grandfather Levor Levorson. When everyone had
eaten and dishes were washed, everyone went out to sit under the old apple
trees. Kari Faster. as. she was called by her brothers family, was really the
life of the party, keeping everyone entertained and in good spirits. They
visited and had a good time, until it was getting to be time to think it would
be nice to have a cupful of some good coffee, and that Ida would have to cook.
It was made, and a lunch was also served. Everyone said goodbye to the North
Dakota folks. Lotta and Karine had to bring Grandma's dresses, bonnet, hat and
everything they had taken from Grandma's room back where they found them. All
good things had now comle to an end. The next day we had to say goodbye to all
of our cousins, Uncle and Auntie, as they left for home, leaving only some
special memories with us.
The
next event in the history of the family happened on the l9th day of November
1897 when the twin boys were born here. Herman, the oldest, weighed one half
pound more than Johannes. We had school here at the time and the teacher was
boarding here. She had her bicycle which she used every day going to school and
coming home. But today she had to come home for dinner and she took Mina along
and gave her a ride on her bike. It was a beautiful day, so warm they could
stand outside on the porch and wash clothes. Grandma was busy caring for the
babies and Mama, but they were healthy and adjusted themselves in the cradle and
did not cry or fuss. But they were two instead of one so it took more clothes
and everything, so Kari Faster came, first with her cream mush and yards of
gingham, and later many more came bringing food and other things. The boys grew
and were good babies.
Aunt
Celia and a friend of hers, who had relatives not far from Joice, came and spent
the winter of 1897 and 1898 here. This friend was Petera Brye and she went to
stay with her folks part of the time, but came back later in the winter and
sewed for the twins and Mama. She also sewed for Aunt Celia who had met Olaus
Johnson while in North Dakota, and they planned to be married that spring. She
chose May 30th as her wedding day and that was also her birthday. Olaus came a
few days before the wedding as he had not met the family, and he had to get his
license too. He came to Lake MilIs, and Father was there to meet him when he
stepped off the tram. We children were quite anxious to see the man who was
taking Aunt Celia away. They came home in the afternoon, and Aunt Celia
introduced him to all of us. Aunt Helene was at home helping to get ready for
the wedding. She was going to bake a cake and of course make it extra good, but
when it was baked, it was so hard and heavy she could not save it for the
wedding. She wanted the children to eat it, but we said: "Aunt Margit, she
can bake real good cake."
We
wanted to go to the woods and get hawthorn flowers as Olaus and Aunt Celia were
ready to go and we were going with them and help find where they were. There was
"Langehaugen" and a hollow where the hawthorn trees stood that was
named by Aunt Aslaug who called it the "Thieves Den." There were some
beautiful flowers just coming out. Olaus cut off some branches and we carried
them home. Aunt Helene decorated the dining room with oak leaves and flowers in
front of the south window, and under these decorations. Aunt Celia was married
to Olaus Johnson. Now all of Grandma's children, except Aunt Helene and Uncle
Nils were married. Papa had bought Aunt Celia's organ for twenty-five dollars as
she was not taking that along. It was not a large wedding but relatives,
neigbbors, and a few friends were invited and came. Dinner was served at noon,
and in the afternoon Aunt Celia and Olaus Johnson were married. They stayed here
a week or more after the wedding. They went to see Aunt Aslaug and Anna
Gullikson, Uncle Johannes and other relatives, and soon after this it was time
to say goodbye. Lotta said to Mina, "Ja, Grandma gave Aunt Celia a good
talking to, and she quoted from the Bible too. Grandma is good at that."
Papa took them to Lake MilIs. We did shed a few tears, but when Papa came home,
we did as usual - ran down to the bridge to meet him and have a ride home. Papa
had brought us May baskets from Uncle Olaus, so we were happy and our sorrow was
forgotten. Once when Lotta and Mina ran to meet him, he had shaved off his
whiskers while in town, so we didn't know bim, and we turned back and made it
home again in a hurry.
June
came and the school bell rang and we hurried off to school. This was the
beginning of our spring term. Our good teacher, Miss Tena Anderson, was coming
back after a short vacation and we were happy. We four - Oscar, Albin, Mina, and
Lotta - were of school age, and we were all ready to go that first Monday
morning. But this was to be Miss Anderson's last term of school in Bristol
Township No.1. So she asked us to tell our folks that she would like to have us
bring a picnic lunch, take it to Northwood to her sister's place, and have our
picnic on the lawn there. Also, we were to have our picture taken with her and
everything turned out as she wished it would. Papa had an errand to Northwood so
he took us four. Regina Trustem, and Peter, and Theoline Roppe, and most of the
children came and we had a very happy day.
In
the early morning of September l3th, 1899, Mina took her twin brothers for a
ride in their little wagon. We went to call on cousin Lorentz and Aunt Julia.
She asked, "Is everything OK at home?", and Mina answered, "I
think so." Uncle John was not at home, he was helping out at a place where
the pastor was sick. After swinging Lorentz and the twins a while in the hammock
that Uncle had made and hung between two oak trees, word came from home that
Mina must come and bring the children. Aunt Julia and Lorentz went with her.
Lorentz was a friend of Martha's and when we got home, Lotta came from school
and she had to care for the children. Mina went in to see Mama and there sat our
neighbor, Pernille swinging a little bundle back and forth in her arms. It was a
baby girl and she was not so little either. Grandma was busy as usual when the
babies arrived - she was really boss then. We were not allowed to leave the
outside door open for more than a minute at the time. Now it was to find a name
for the little girl. Almost everyone in the relationship had a namesake here,
but Aunt Helene and Uncle Nils, so she was named for them and baptized Nora
Henrietta. Mina was now, and had been, going for confirmation instruction, also
attending her last year of public school.
On
September 10th, 1900 our cousin Ruth Magdalena was bom and later in the fall
Aunt Julia, Lorentz, and Ruth were moving to Lake Mills to live with Uncle Nils
and Aunt Helene until Uncle John had finished his job and could move to South
Dakota. He had had a call from there and it was all settled - he should move
that year. They got ready to leave Iowa. They made the trips around to see the
folks and bid goodbye on both places. We missed having them near, but it was
nice to know Unde John was well and could go back to the work he had prepared
himself for.
In
the spring of 1901 Ingvald Lauritz was born. He was really a big baby and a good
baby too. He was born April 8, 1901 on a beautiful sunny Sunday. Ingvald became
the carpenter in the family. He was always interested in making things. Once he
made a small radio and it had earphones. Grandma was willing to try it out so
she sat there as proud as could be with the earphones on and said: "Of
course I hear something!" Ingvald finished school from the Somber Day
School and later attended and finished a course at Iowa State College in Ames.
Grandma
was really young in spirit, so we never thought of her as a very old lady. She
had something to say both to the youngsters and the old. Her old neighbor across
the road said: There is something good that follows Mari when she comes." I
remember one time when we were eating breakfast Regina Trustem came running in,
went right over to Grandma and said, "You must come with me, my mother is
so sick and she wants you." Of course, Grandma hurried off with her. It was
the way neighbors helped each other out.
I
had finished my books in our school that spring, and as I was anxious to get
more schooling, Mama finally said, "If you can stay with Aunt Helene and
Uncle Nils you may go." I knew I could, so I got ready. I was so anxious to
learn more. Lotta planned to attend school in the home school that year so would
be staying home. I got along quite well and I liked school, but at Thanksgiving
time Mother told me I had to come home as Grandma and Auntie were not able to do
so much, and Lotta had to keep on as she did not plan to attend next year. I
told my teacher I would come till after Thanksgiving, then I would have to quit
and go home where I was needed. She thought it was too bad; I was to be promoted
to another room but I had to go home and help out. Mother said, "You can go
next year as Lotta can help out then."
Christmas
and company came. Aunt Celia, Uncle Olaus, and little Joice came to spend their
vacation in Iowa. We hustled around to get things ready, decorated our tree - a
little oak that was brought from the timber. Our decorations were candles that
we tied on, some red apples, and some bags made from paper that wi had saved
from different things - most of it from what had been around cottonball rolls
that had been used while quilting, some were blue and some were pink. Mrs.
T.A.Torgerson showed Aunt Helene how to fold and cut the paper bags, and they
looked real lacy and nice when they were filled with candy or nuts and hung on
the tree. Grandma always gave us money for nuts and candy. Aunt Margit made
cookies with holes in the center to hang on the tree. Christmas was always
celebrated in remembrance of the birthday of the Christ Child that was born in
Bethlehem.
Father
was school director that year, and we had to board the teacher so we had plenty
to do. Lotta, Oscar, Albin, Paul and Martha attended school. Mina did help with
clothes washing, always hanging them out.
Our
neighbor, Knut Trustem, was very sick with cancer, and he passed away shortly
after Christmas. This old neighbor had lived here a year longer than Grandma,
and being so near she went to see him quite often during his long and often very
hard sickness. She was there the last morning he lived to say farewell to the
old neighbor and friend.
We
had gotten a lot of snow and lngeborg who had returned home from the hospital
that fall was not able to be with to church, so we met at the house and Rev.
A.J.Torgerson, his pastor, gave a short devotion there. Aunt Margit and I, also
Caroline, had to ride with Albert Ingebritson and his mother. A lot of snow had
come down in the night and it was cold. Father had gone to church early to build
a fire. Andrew and Julia had been there and lined the grave with white sheeting,
and I remember the bouquet of yellow roses they brought. His pastor preached the
sermon to a lot of relatives and friends, and the old pioneer was laid to rest
by the side of his wife, Kari.
On
the 27th day of February 1903, another little boy was bom. He was not as big a
baby as his older brother, but Papa said he is like my father both in looks and
stature. Now it was to find a name for him. Someone had suggested Levor, so it
would be Levor the third on the place, but no, it was not to be that! So Mama
said, "You liked the name Selma so well here some years ago, why not name
him Selmer for your favorite Aunt Sissel. And so he was named Selmer Adolph for
Aunt Sissel and Aunt Aslaug.
On
the fourth of March that spring, our neighbor girl Addie Ingebritson was to be
married. There was to be a large wedding as neigbbors friends as well as
relatives were invited. The folks could not go, but Lotta, Oscar and Mina went,
also our teacher went to Bristol church where the couple were to be married.
After the ceremony was over, Oscar had to take the horses home, but we girls
planned to go in and eat supper and we did, and met a lot of our friends there
too as it was really a large wedding. It had snowed a little so it was wet and
slushy as we walked home, but it did not matter as we felt we had had a good
time. Walking was a common way of traveling when going to the neigbbors. Even
Grandma at her age would walk a mile or two. It was two miles from our
schoolhouse to the one out by Strom and that was close to Aslaug, Grandma's
sister, and she often walked over there. Aunt Aslaug would walk to church and
that was two miles.
Once
a year in the summer time we would be invited to Auntie and Anna Gullekson for a
Sunday dinner.
Our
brother Edwin was born the 25th of September 1905. Papa said, "Now I have a
baseball nine." It was really getting quite crowded in the house so the
question was, What can be done about it? Then there was the "John
house" as we called it because Uncle John had had it, so Papa moved that
west up to the house, built a little entrance in between a door leading out of
the entrance both to the north and the south. Now we had plenty room but it was
not so handy. But money was not plentiful in those days, and it took good
management to be able to get along. Mother took good care of the clothes and was
careful to make things reach. After Uncle Nils came to Scarville, Papa would
drive there to get our groceries, also our dress goods. Papa was always busy. He
lived near the South Silver Lake Church, so was often janitor and sexton of the
cemetery. But he had help now from the older boys and so had Mother, so they
could let up on the work and let the young ones do some of it.
Our
little baby sister was born that year on the 28th of September 1907. When I came
downstairs that morning, grandmother called to me and said, "Mina, come and
see your baby sister; she is a perfect baby, well in every way." The doctor
had just left and grandma had taken over. So much had to be done now before
little sister was to be baptized. A name had to be chosen, and sponsors had to
be found somewheres in the congregation, as all the uncles and aunts living near
here had served in that way. Mrs.Ole Kaasa became her "gudmor" and she
was named Valborg Amanda. It had always been the style in the community to
invite the witnesses for dinner that Sunday of baptism and all came. Mr. and
Mrs.Ole Kaasa and Christena and Ole Ellingson who were the sponsors.
The
next summer, 1908, was a summer for company. It was the summer that Aunt Anne
Petterson came to celebrate her sister Ida's birthday the 23rd of June. She was
mother's oldest sister who had lived in Iowa but left there and moved to North
Dakota after her busband Albin Nelson died. At this time she was married to Jens
Petterson and lived in Mayville, N.D.
There
was company off and on that summer, and places to go to too. Later in the summer
Aunt Anna went on a trip. Grandma took off for South Dakota to visit Uncle John
and family, and Aunt Anna to Aurelia, Iowa to visit her daughter Clara's uncle,
the Lars Nielson family. She stayed there a week. Then she came here and Mama
and she went to Northwood to visit relatives and friends.
After
they returned home, mama got sick with what the Norwegian doctors called
"benvaerk." We had to stay up nights as we had to use hot packs for
the pain. The pain pills were not much in use at that time. Martha had a full
time job taking care of little Valborg, and I had to help take care of mama.
Time went on and the next spring mama was able to walk again. But all the time
between, especially in the winter, she had been suffering from this sickness,
but the Dr. that came to her now, promised she would be able to walk as soon as
it healed up which would be soon and it did.
The
three youngest boys were of school age now, and besides they helped do chores,
and when spring came, it was to help with field work too. But all work and no
fun did not go so good so they had their ball games in the summertime, and in
the winter it was ice skating, snow balling, and other games. Selmer was a real
squirrel when it came to climbing trees and good as a bird when he got to the
tree tops. They all played ball, but Edwin was especially so and played in the
Tenold team awhile.
Ingvald
and Selmer were interested in music too and decided to get a phonograph. They
had some money, but not enough, so all of us gave what we could and they went to
grandma. So at last they bought a phonograph and we all enjoyed the music. They
played the "Whistler and His Dog" which was a favorite with all of us.
And the song "When You and I Were Young Maggie" was grandma's
favorite, so they had to play it real often for her. She always said, "Now
you must play, "When You and I Were Young Maggie" ", and it was
played until we almost learned it.
D.
O. and Mrs.Ellingson were going to St.Ansgar to spend a weekend with their
daughter, Mrs. Fred Hanson, who lived near St. Ansgar. They offered Grandmother
and Aunt Margit to go along and they would take them to the old Assor Groth home
to visit Grandmother Groth. Grandmother was anxious to og, but Auntie thought it
would be quite a trip so maybe they should not go. But the folks urged them to
get ready now when they had such a good chance. Neither of them had seen old
St.Ansgar or had a car ride across the prairie in years, so Grandma enjoyed it
very much. Many memories of the dim past came back to her as they rode down the
lane leading to the Groth home. When they arrived there, Clara Groth came to the
door and D.O. told her he was bringing company for Mrs.Groth. Clara and Alma
took them in to their Grandmother's room and there was a happy reunion when
Kjersti and Mari met again after all these years. They stayed Saturday and
Sunday with Kjersti and had a wonderful time. Coming home, it was wonderful to
hear them tell about their trip.
Once
again Grandmother was invited to Lyle, Minnesota where Anne Larson lived. Way
back in time she had been married to Nils Levorson Slaaten. But Aunt Margit
thought it was too far for Mari to go, so she did not go.
Grandmother
did a lot of reading. Here "Kirketidende" did not lay around unread,
and so with the "Decorah Posten." The day she expected these papers,
someone would have to go and get the mail and before the day was over, she had
read them. She always told father if she thought it was something he should
know. She said, "Listen to this, Levor" - so he was sure to get it.
She got her second sight and did not need glasses. She had most always been boss
in the garden.
The
first World War began now in 1914 and Grandma read whatever she could find in
the paper about it. April 1917, there were few people who realized the sacrifice
our country would share in winning the war that raged in Europe. Aunt Margit and
Grandma had lived when the Civil War broke out and had seen their brother John
Johnson enlist and never return.
Father
and Mother decided to take off for North Dakota at this time to see relatives
and friends both in Northwood and Mayville. They took Valborg along and we
others were to take care of things at home. As Lotta was married and had gone to
make another home for herself, Martha and Mina had to help Auntie and Grandma.
The
young men were enlisting. Paul had entered the service in November 1915 -
enlisting in the Navy. He became a chief gunner's mate. When Father heard that
Oscar planned to enlist, they came home sooner than we had expected them. Oscar
enlisted and served overseas with Headquarters Company of the 61st Infantry 5th
Division, and saw active fighting in St. Miluel and Meuse-Argonne. He was
discharged July 28, 1919.
In
May 1918, Albin entered the service. He served at Great Lakes Training Station
and Detroit, and was released in 1919 when he returned home. Now the three
oldest boys had been in service. Worth County had a record - she had sent over
five hundred men to the camps and the line of battle.
The
ladies who were home were also busy doing Red Cross work, and were keeping the
home fires burning while the boys were gone. The farmers and others worked, and
one of the achievements that they supported was the Liberty Loan achievement.
Our neighbors, friends, and relatives had someone or more in camp or service, so
everybody tried to help win the war.
Grandma
had her garden. One thing she raised plenty of was navy beans. When the beans
were ready to be taken. she was ready to get them harvested. In later years the
boys helped; they fixed some kind of a machine to make it easier for her. But as
time went on, she sat more in her room, did a lot of knitting and piecing blocks
for quilts and so forth. But when coffee time came around, she came out to get
what she said, "A good cupful of Ida's coffee." On one of Ida's
birthdays, she gave her a good-sized coffee pot, as she always liked her morning
and afternoon coffee.
The
first World War came to its end November 1919. The armistice was signed on the
eleventh day of November. People were happy over it, but there was many a vacant
chair in the different homes as many of the boys were sleeping in Flanders
Fields. So both joy and sorrow came home with the end of the war. The boys found
work after returning, and that made them forget the war. Many were sick and
needed a rest.
Many
other things came on, but the years slid by and Grandma's walk became slower.
But she managed to walk to Aunt Helene's who had moved to the Roppe-Olson place.
She also attended the Ladies Society meetings, and she walked to church on
Sundays. If the young people had an ice cream social, as they had sometimes, she
was there. Once she came home real happy, telling us she had met a lady whose
parents had come from Hjartdal, Telemarken. She had had a real good visit with
her, and she was so happy over this.
Birthdays
were seldom mentioned in those davs, but the reason we always knew when
Grandmother's was, is that we were supposed to finish corn picking till the 28th
of October, and that was Grandma's birthday. On the 28th of October 1925,
Grandmother's birthday. Mrs.Dena Torgerson came to spend the afternoon with her.
As they sat together in front of the big heating stove, we others were in the
kitchen getting a birthday lunch ready. Aunt Margit and Mother had also joined
them and now the two old grandmothers, who had been neighbors and friends so
many years sang,
Taenk
naar engang den taage er forsvunden,
som
her sig saenker over livet ned,
naar
dagen, evig klar, er hist oprunden,
og
lys omstraaler hvert af mine fjed.
A.S.V.
It
was Grandmother's last birthday.
She
spent a good winter, was up every day and was able to walk to church. But a case
of intluenza came into the home in the month of March, and she, with some of the
others, had to give in and go to bed. I met her the next morning and we were
both sick, so she said, "Mina, you will have to go and lay down, and so
will I. But look at these little rugs I have knit. Do you think I can send them
to Anna and Celia?" I said, "O, yes, you can." We did go to each
our room. Most of the family got sick with the flu, but Martha and the boys were
able to do the work.
Grandmother
passed away after being sick for three weeks with bronchial pneumonia. She was
buried April 2nd, 1926 at the ripe age of eighty-nine years and five months. She
left seven cbildren, four boys and three girls, and many grandchildren - even
some great grandchildren. She had really been a pioneer woman, coming here when
the country was new and seen it grow into a good farming country. Our county
seat moved from Bristol to Northwood. All this and that she was happy to tell
anyone who would listen to her.
Grandma
had been busy doing her share helping where there was sickness in the homes. She
could leave home to help others, as she had her sister, Margit, to look after
the children. She had taken her sister, Margit home to be with her when she was
very sick with rheumatic fever, and now after she was well again she stayed and
helped in every way she could. Grandmother was blessed with good health and
could go and care for the sick, and help out when needed. Once she came home
from a place where she had stayed a while longer than expected and she said,
"I felt bad for the young daughter who was so young and had so much to
do." And so to this pioneer grandmother the Lord had given health and
opportunity to do it.
We
children knew when to go to Grandmother, and when not to. If we had been naughty
and Mother had punished us, it was no use for us to go to Grandmother until we
had been sorry and said so to Mama. She did a lot of handwork. She made
different kinds of quilt tops, but it seemed she liked her log cabin pattern
best.
The
day of her funeral was a nice spring day. As they carried her casket across the
meadow to church, every one of the family, who were well enough, followed along.
The congregation and neighbors had gathered too, and when all was over, they
wended their way home again slowly across the meadow. Even if slowly, it did not
cover much of our time, as it was Grandma's land our little church is on. We
also thought as the Norwegian poet,
"walk slowly - we will get home soon enough."
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